Jim Gaffigan Show pokes our brains, souls & funny bones (Spoiler-Free)


I never would’ve thought that Chris Rock, Jim Gaffigan & Jeannie Gaffigan would’ve interacted with me . . . ever.

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Twitter makes the world strange. But it reminds me that we’re all people, and we all sit on our butts and stare at screens sometimes, and we all appreciate knowing that others enjoy our craft. No matter how far ‘up the social ladder’ we’ve been able to climb, we’re all essentially looking for the same thing.

“Relating our experiences means realizing that our lives are bound together as a single reality, that our voices are many, and that each is unique.” – Pope Francis

So… How Was the Show?

Jim and Jeannie released a great ‘sneak peek’ episode of their new TV series this week.  They’re well aware that they’re “the Catholic couple” in comedy, and they send a message with this episode they released on JimGaffigan.com.

Here’s the message I received: Our human nature tends to blow things out of proportion. We often jump to conclusions about ourselves and other people; especially in mainstream media… especially when it comes to matters of faith and morals.  It points at the ridiculous stereotypes we’ve taken for granted, and reminds us that life — and people — are more beautiful and nuanced.

Even though our show is going to be on at 10 at night, it’s not squeaky clean because we deal with adult themes, like the question of getting a vasectomy, in a really family friendly way. We have an edge to our show and it’s really fun, but there’s nothing really yucky about it if you want to watch it with your family. – Jeannie Gaffigan, AXS Interview

I tend toward more conservative parenting (let’s all let that loaded “conservative” label just sink in for a second…), so there are a few things I would rather not have children see or hear from this particular episode, but I appreciate that Jim & Jeannie want to start meaningful conversations about adult issues with overall clean comedy.  And, as a Catholic, I enjoy seeing how a married Catholic couple who work at the highest levels of the entertainment industry are translating their point-of-view into their work.

Is this something that would air on EWTN?  No.

The Jim Gaffigan Show is TV comedy that makes you stop and think — about yourself, your values, your actions, and how you’re related to everyone else in this world.  In my book?  That’s comedy of the best kind.

Bittersweet Mother’s Day? Four inspiring, healing stories.


Mother’s Day is sweet, but also bittersweet for many of us: those who have lost a mother, or who have lost a child, or who desire to be a mother but aren’t mothers yet — or those who may never be physical mothers.

I am in one of those categories, and Mother’s Day is in some ways a trial for me.  So, I thought I’d share some fitting, hopeful stories that have inspired me:

1. A Mother’s Tattoo

Linda Padgett has lost 5 children to miscarriage. She tells the story of how her tattoo helped her heal in an unexpected way:

…it was a cleansing, healing cry.  Everyone in that room understood that.  There was no judgment or shame passed on to me.  They all knew that great healing can come from such an act.

Read the story on her blog, and see the beautiful art she wears 24/7.

2. Hear Moms Share Their Heartfelt Stories of Healing

In response to the question, “Why are you Catholic?” and “Why do you follow Christ?”, Greg and Jennifer Willits shared a profoundly moving story about how prayer helped them through Jennifer’s difficulty nursing their son.  Listen to episode 81 of The Catholics Next Door to hear it.

Not long ago, Katherine and Mac Barron responded to one of their listeners’ questions about how to deal with grief resulting from miscarriage, and shared their own personal experience.  Listen on episode 292 of Catholic In A Small Town.

3. Blind Mom ‘Sees’ Her Ultrasound

Technology can do great things these days.  Check out this lovely, true story presented by Huggies.

How to get FREE resources for your parish – this week!


If you’re like me, you’ve worked behind-the-scenes in parishes and apostolates for a long time, and you want your parish catechetical / evangelization materials to be…

  • Low cost
  • Strong Catholic teaching
  • Easy to understand
  • Intriguing / interesting
  • Outstanding, professional quality
  • Easy to implement

You have a right to be so demanding.

Word on Fire agrees, and has granted your wishes… all of them!  This week only — in celebration of their CATHOLICISM project becoming the most-watched Catholic documentary in history — Word on Fire Catholic Ministries is giving away TONS of their best DVDs, books, and study guides.

How to get free stuff this week

Each day, Word on Fire will give away different materials.  Today (Monday), it’s 100 copies of the CATHOLICISM DVD!  Simply go to CATHOLICISMWeek.com daily to enter giveaways and see special video clips.  Be sure to “Like” Word on Fire’s Facebook to stay updated.

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UPDATE – New resources added: Priests’ video messages for teens


I’m so glad that my white-collared friends have been promoting yesterday’s post about the video project for teens that we put together for last weekend.  A few more resources to share:

Fr. Kyle Schnippel has made his video available for public viewing:


If want something longer than the short videos I’ve been sharing, check out Fr. Rob Galea’s “My Story” mini-documentary.  This is what we had originally planned to use, but decided to go for a more personal touch. Father Rob also covers topics that aren’t discussed in the other videos, like how he prays and his vocation story.

Priests to teens: “What I want you to know about priests”


So last week, I did something a little crazy: I asked priests for a favor…the week before Holy Week.

And whaddaya know, they answered!

My husband and I were tasked with leading our parish youth program’s presentation about the Sacraments at the Service of Communion: Holy Orders and Matrimony.  To create a ‘hook’, I asked several priest friends of ours to record a short video message for the teens:

  • Length: 30 seconds – 2 minutes
  • Introduce yourself.
  • What’s one thing you want teens to know about priests/priesthood?

I gave them my email address and a hard deadline, and asked for their prayers whether they could record a video or not.

Thanks be to God, we received videos from 6 priests — 2 from our Archdiocese, 3 from other cities in the U.S., and 1 in Canada.  I compiled the videos in iMovie, and we played the final product before our presentation about Holy Orders.

It was well-received; the teens were glued to the screen.  Why?  Well, one major reason is because these priests took time out of their busy lives to record personal video messages for them!

One of the standout entries was this video from Father Chris Decker, which he’s made public on the Catholic Underground Facebook page.

Another was this one by Father Darryl Millette, which he’s now published on YouTube.


Check them out — and share with your teens!  I encourage you to consider this project with your youth group, especially if…

  • …you’re focusing on vocations, but you just can’t seem to schedule a religious or clergy to speak during your meeting.
  • …you want to expose your teens to priests / religious other than those whom they already know from your parish community.
  • …you don’t have many clergy / religious living in your community.

Practical notes: I heard back from about half of the men I contacted.  (There were also 2 deacons in the mix.)  Remember: This was only 1 week notice, and a busy week liturgically.  The other videos I’m not sharing here were recorded using smartphones or computers; nothing fancy.  What’s important is the message and the clear care that each priest has for his intended audience.

If you’re interested in this video concept, check out another simple video project I did for our youth leaders.

Infinite thanks to the clergy who prayed for this project and those who recorded videos.

What is woman’s role in the Church?

Our local diocesan newspaper, Today’s Catholic, runs a column called Living the Gift of Womanhood, which is organized by my employers.  I was asked to write this month’s contribution about woman’s role in the Church.  Here’s what I submitted:

Speaking at a local Catholic women's luncheon
Speaking at a local Catholic women’s luncheon

After I spoke at a local Catholic luncheon, a woman stood up and announced, “I would like to vote Angela as the first female priest.” The room erupted in laughter.

After the noise died down, she asked, “When will we ever have women priests?”

Years ago, as a somewhat-arrogant college freshman studying theology, I sat frowning as a proponent of women’s ordination presented her case. Afterward, I concluded that she was simply ‘a whiny dissenter’.

Today, having worked ‘on-the-ground’ for several years in Catholic women’s ministries, I look back at that presenter with compassion. I recall the pain in her voice as she described remote communities unable to receive Eucharist, due to the priest shortage. She longed to see those souls receive the sacraments. Her concern was genuinely maternal.

The conversation surrounding women’s ordination is extremely complex. I can only allude to it. Beneath it, however, remains a larger question: What place does a woman have in the Catholic Church?

I treasure this fundamental Scripture verse, ripe with meaning:

“God created mankind in his image; in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them” (Gen. 1:27).

Our dear Holy Father has echoed this verse’s implications quite publicly and frequently. During his recent visit to the Philippines, he lamented the lack of girls for a planned youth Q&A session:

“Women have much to tell us in today’s society. Sometimes we are too machistas and we don’t allow enough space to women. But women can see things from a different angle to us, with a different eye. Women are able to pose questions we men are unable to understand. […] So when the next pope comes to Manila, please let there be more girls.”

We’ve heard many people belabor the fact that men are able to assume roles in the Church that women cannot. In the above quote, however, Pope Francis points to women’s role in the Church: to be God’s image in ways that men cannot.

The Pontifical Council for Culture, in fact, held a Plenary Assembly last month on “Feminine Cultures: Equality and Difference.” I encourage you to read the relevant documents on http://www.cultura.va.

In them, the Council notes that women, while entering more fully into a society that is markedly masculine, have historically sacrificed their unique feminine qualities to varying degrees. The Council finds this an unacceptable outcome, and challenges us to uphold ‘the feminine genius’:

“It is with respect to this originality of women that the true development of the feminine position will develop.”

In God’s wisdom, the Virgin Mary was the first disciple. The Risen Christ appeared to Mary Magdalene first. Surely, our good God willed them to these vocations not in spite of their womanhood, but—in part—because of it. After all; he’s the one who made them women!

Throughout the history of Christianity, we see women: Catherine of Siena restoring the papacy to Rome; countless women worldwide creating schools for the poor and outcast; Bernadette Soubirous, Catherine Labouré, and other women or girls of nearly all the approved modern Marian apparitions. Let’s not forget the mothers and grandmothers who, as Pope Francis noted late January, “are the ones who in primis transmit the faith.”

When that woman stood up and ‘voted me first female priest’, I was taken aback, but also happy that she voiced her question.

My answer to her was multifaceted. The bottom line for me, however, is that fundamental mystery of Creation: “in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them.”

What is the role of women in the Church? To uniquely reveal Almighty God. Men and women, while equal in dignity, were never meant to be the same.

Do we have some work ahead of us to ensure that this truth is manifested in the Church’s daily life? Undoubtedly; while divinely instituted, the Church is also human. We’ve allowed the world’s “battle of the sexes” to osmose into our Catholic family.

Let’s meditate on where God is calling us: not to hegemony or homogony, but to celebrate and embrace all the unique gifts that distinguish women from men, and vice versa.

"Paradise" by M.C. Escher (1921)
“Paradise” by M.C. Escher (1921)

St. Patrick, Negroes, and Muslims — Why Today Is So Important


St. Patrick’s Day is a day of victory for us all — not only because we enjoy green beer, lucky charms, and t-shirts — but because “100% Irish” paraphernalia contrast that of just a few generations ago, when paraphernalia supported American Party political candidates who argued that America should be rid of the Irish.  For me, it’s personal.

How to Keep Your Family Alive

In the mid-1800s, my ancestor Michael was an Irish farmer whose crops in Southern Ireland had been devastated by disease.  Realizing that he couldn’t keep his wife and ten children alive in his native country any longer, he left the Emerald Isle for the strange world of America, with his wife Margaret and eight of their children.  His son Timothy, from whom I descend, stayed home to nurse his ill young brother back to health, but instead watched helplessly as he died, like so many of their neighbors.  As an adolescent boy, he emigrated to America.

Home of the Brave

In his new world, Irish were demeaned alongside blacks.  Contemporary cartoons depicted Irishmen as ape-like funnymen, committing crimes in a drunken stupor.  Worse still, an illustration in the influential Harper’s Weekly aimed to scientifically demonstrate Irish inferiority.


Caption: “The (Irish) Iberians are believed to have been originally an African race, who thousands of years ago spread themselves through Spain over Western Europe. Their remains are found in the barrows, or burying places, in sundry parts of these countries. The skulls are of low prognathous type. They came to Ireland and mixed with the natives of the South and West, who themselves are supposed to have been of low type and descendants of savages of the Stone Age, who, in consequence of isolation from the rest of the world, had never been out-competed in the healthy struggle of life, and thus made way, according to the laws of nature, for superior races.”

That’s not to mention Irish immigrants’ strange religion, Catholicism.  Many Americans, fearing that the Irish would turn their nation into a ‘papal state’ ruled by Church law, formed anti-Irish groups that marched in the streets, lashed out in violence, and at the very least created an intimidating presence.

Thousands of Irish were called upon by Archbishop John Hughes to defend Catholic church buildings against anti-Irish mobs.  His biography by Rev. Henry Brann recalls,

When, therefore, he heard that a threat had been made to burn down his cathedral, (Archbishop Hughes) caused three or four thousand of the most intelligent and prominent Catholics to arm themselves, and to take possession of the churchyard in Mott Street, and defend the building. When the ‘Natives’ heard of these preparations, they were afraid to attack, and no more was heard of the threat.

This all reminds me of two things:

  1. To treasure and give thanks for my ancestors’ courage
  2. To not let history repeat itself through me

How Far We’ve (Yet to) Come

I wonder how convinced I might’ve been of Irish inferiority were I a non-Irish American in the mid-nineteenth century.  How obvious would it have been, that the Irish were a threat?  I wonder how much “proof” of their dangerous natures I would’ve seen with my mind’s eye.

Today, Muslim immigrants come here seeking refuge from their own dangerous plights.  They, as well as native-born American Muslims, are by many considered threats to national security.  They are strange-looking people with an alien culture and violent tendencies, who will surely turn our nation into an Islamic State.

Last month, Lifeway Research published some recent polls of 1,000 Americans each.  Among the results:

37% – say they are worried about Sharia law being applied in America
27% – believe ISIL reflects the true nature of Islam

Encountering One Another

About one month ago, not far from my city, a Houston mosque at Quba Islamic Institute suffered tremendous damage by an arsonist.  Al Jazeerah reports an encouraging conversion story in the fire’s wake:

Joshua Gray, a truck driver from Catersville, Georgia, took to Facebook and accused Muslims in the United States of not taking a stand against Al-Qaeda and the Islamic State of Iraq and the Levant (ISIL).

He called Muslims “scum,” in one comment, and in another post he wrote that he hoped a mosque “burns for every American killed by these terrorists.”

(Imam Zahid Abdullah) responded to Gray by inviting him to Quba. Gray, already driving through Houston area, accepted. Then he spent five hours at the mosque speaking with its members and seeing them in prayer.

“It just changed my opinion on a lot of the things I’ve seen and heard by just going in and actually talking to him face to face,” Gray, who said he never met Muslims prior to visiting Quba, told Al Jazeera.

He added that Zahid and other members of the mosque treated him with “friendliness” and were “welcoming” and “well mannered.”

“Everything that a lot of us are told as Christians, they do as far as treating everybody the same. Even after my comments that I made, they still treated me good,” Gray said. “It’s just not what I was expecting.”

Gray later issued a public apology on Quba’s Facebook page, and added: “Anger gets the better of us sometimes by things happening around the world, and in our own country, so we tend to lash out the only way we are able, which are the ones like you, who dont like it anymore than we do. Thanks for inviting me.”

A most-difficult challenge from Pope Francis has been his call for us to create a “culture of encounter”.  His message for this year’s World Communications Day reminded us that Jesus’ command to love applies to all our neighbors, even those whose culture and religion are strange to us (cf. Luke 10:25-37).

“May the image of the Good Samaritan,” he said, “who tended to the wounds of the injured man by pouring oil and wine over them be our inspiration.”

Saint Patrick is celebrated by the Irish today not only because he brought Catholicism to their homeland, but because he adopted Ireland as his homeland.  He loved the people among whom he was once an alien slave.  On his day, may we boldly accept the challenge — a true challenge — to embrace those who are strange to us.

“You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I say to you, love your enemies, and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your heavenly Father, for he makes his sun rise on the bad and the good, and causes rain to fall on the just and the unjust. For if you love those who love you, what recompense will you have? Do not the tax collectors do the same? And if you greet your brothers only, what is unusual about that? Do not the pagans do the same? So be perfect, just as your heavenly Father is perfect.” (Matthew 5:43-48)

Pastor Rick Warren’s Catholic bishop hero


I’ve never had the pleasure of attending the Religious Education Congress in the Archdiocese of Los Angeles, but since my former shepherd Archbishop Jose Gomez was re-assigned to L.A., I’ve taken a greater interest in it. Conveniently, that was around the time that the Congress launched their livestream via YouTube. Thanks to this wonderful – and free! – gift to the Church, I’ve enjoyed watching or listening to several of the major sessions at home and at work.

This year, Pastor Rick Warren gave a talk largely based around his bestselling Purpose-Driven Life material. Obviously a natural on-stage, he also appeared comfortable with the Catholic crowd, gracefully integrating Catholic ‘lingo’ into his inspiring presentation.

I wanted to share, in particular, Rick’s last anecdote with you. He became quite emotional during this portion, and I tried my best to relay some of that emotion to you in my transcription:

One of my heroes… (pauses and looks down)

… was the great…(pauses)

…Catholic bishop…(pauses to gain composure)

… I can hardly tell this story.

He went to a leprosy colony… and um…it was over in Africa.  And he went to look at the people…and to talk and minister to the people.  And as he walked through the leprosy colony, there was one guy sitting on the ground in just a loincloth, and…(pauses again; looks down)

…He clearly had other skin diseases, too, besides leprosy, because they were oozing, and kind of pussy, and runny.  (Pauses)

And uh…as he (the bishop) looked over, he bent down to talk to this man about, um…his…love…and as he leaned over to talk to him (the leper), the crucifix that he (the bishop) was wearing — the chain — broke. And the crucifix fell into an open sore on the man’s leg.  In–into an open, pussy sore.

(Pauses. Sniffs.)

He said, “When I saw that, I was filled with…with…indignity.”

He said, “It was just revolting to me. The scene.”

But he said, “But then all of a sudden, I was filled… I was filled…with the Spirit of Christ.”

And he said, “I reached into the sore, and I took up the Cross.”

I heard that story when I was in college, and I remember thinking: That phrase is the finest definition of Christianity I’ve ever heard.

Because the whole business of the Church, and of Christians, of those of us who claim the name of Christ, is to go out into the sores of life, where people are hurting, and bleeding, and dying, and take up the Cross! And if we’re not doing that, I doubt our Christianity!

I’m so grateful to him for sharing this story, and for accepting the invitation to speak at the Congress.  We Christians can learn so much from each other.  (In case you’re wondering, it seems Rick was so overcome with emotion that he failed to mention the bishop’s name.)

I’m not sure if the RE Congress plans to keep Pastor Warren’s presentation online permanently, but for now, the video is currently located here on their YouTube channel.  If you can find an hour to carve out of your week, I highly encourage you to watch and take notes.

P.S. You may have noticed that I recently published 2 pieces which have now disappeared from the blog.  My St. Patrick’s Day piece will return in a few hours; Monday evening.  The piece on women’s place in the Church will be published on March 22 to coincide with its print publication in Today’s Catholic newspaper.   As always, thanks for contributing to the conversation here.  I look forward to your comments!

How to regard others’ decisions

"A depiction of Jesus and the woman taken in adultery" by Vasily Polenov (1888)
“A depiction of Jesus and the woman taken in adultery” by Vasily Polenov (1888)

In a world of information overload, politics, gossip, and social media timelines…

One who accompanies others has to realize that each person’s situation before God and their life in grace are mysteries which no one can fully know from without. The Gospel tells us to correct others and to help them to grow on the basis of a recognition of the objective evil of their actions (cf. Mt 18:15), but without making judgments about their responsibility and culpability (cf. Mt 7:1; Lk 6:37). – Pope Francis, “Evangelii Gaudium”

Difficult, but Good News.